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We recently became aware of "Black and white," a poem written by 10-year-old Olivia Harris, and asked if we might republish it on GCC Voices. According to her mom, Carrie Huggins Harris, Olivia wrote this poem because she wanted to share a piece of herself at her school’s open mic night--and she was excited to be chosen to perform. Through this poem, she explores her identity in a way that invites others to listen, learn, and reflect. Her words speak not just to being biracial, but to anyone who’s ever felt like they don’t fully fit into one box or another. Olivia’s message is powerful: you don’t have to choose just one part of who you are—you can proudly be all of you. Her poem reminds everyone, no matter their age, that their identity is something to be celebrated!  Black and white We are sunshine and moonlight Different like night and day Not stuck between two worlds We make our own way. We are Black and we are white Like zebra stripes Like piano keys Like day and night. Everything in life is different Although it may not seem We all have a purpose We all have a dream. Our hair may be different From braids to curls to waves to swirls Our hair is unique And oh sooo chic. The world will have its rules A box we have to check But there is no box That determines what's next. I am Black I am white I am mom’s sunshine And dad’s moonlight. I am Jamaican I am Bahamian I am British And Romanian. People ask “What are you?” And I say I am me I hope that I am someone Everyone can see. All of us are different But in a way the same Strong and proud and free Our parents' legacy. - Olivia Harris   Olivia Harris is a bright, creative, and confident ten-year-old who lives in Queens, New York. She’s passionate about dance, acting, traveling, and finding new ways to express herself through various forms of art. Whether she’s on stage performing or dreaming up her next project, Olivia shines with imagination and energy. She’s known for dancing and twirling her way through life—literally—spreading joy wherever she goes with her infectious spirit. One of the things she’s most proud of is being biracial. Olivia speaks openly and proudly about her identity and enjoys helping others understand what it means to live in both worlds at once—something she does with wisdom well beyond her years. Please note: Each week, we invite members of the greater Global Citizens Circle community to contribute to GCC Voices. The views and opinions expressed in each blog post are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Global Citizens Circle. I am Black
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By Theo Spanos Dunfey GCC Assistant Director Phoebe de Larrabeiti and I recently attended CSW69, which marks the 69th session of the Commission on the Status of Women, held at the United Nation Headquarters in New York. We are grateful to Marlyn Tadros, CEO and Executive Director of Digital Democracy Now for hosting GCC at UNCSW. A highlight was meeting one of GCC's Emerging Leaders, Nilab Ahmadi from Afghanistan, and celebrating her selection for the UN youth cohort. We enjoyed GCC Board member Priscilla Lee’s presentation on Afghan girls’ education and were deeply moved by a panel of survivors of sexual abuse and prostitution. Inspiring sessions featured young leaders and storytellers, while cultural moments included learning a Maori proverb and enjoying their singing. A final interactive session felt like a fitting celebration of our experiences and gave us hope for what’s to come. I hope you enjoy this video compilation of our time at CSW69. Theo Spanos Dunfey is president and executive director of Global Citizens Circle. She has over 30 years of global experience in non-profits, higher education, and international affairs. Dunfey is a graduate of the Fletcher School of Law & Diplomacy at Tufts University, where she earned a Master of Arts in Law and Diplomacy, concentrating on American diplomatic history, international communication, and international development. It was during her studies at the Fletcher School that she first began volunteering with Global Citizens Circle’s Boston programs. She also earned a bachelor’s in international relations and French at Brown University. With a primary focus on global issues, Dunfey taught international development at the University of New England, led student groups on global citizenship service-learning trips abroad, directed the World Affairs Council of Maine, and produced numerous global editorial conferences for The WorldPaper before taking the helm at Global Citizens Circle. I walk backwards into the future with my eyes fixed on my past.  By Kibar Moussoba I was sitting in my classroom on 9/11 when someone turned to me and said: “Kibar, was that you? What did you do? Was your dad flying that plane?” I froze. It took me a moment to even process what had just been said. The news had been playing on all TVs showing footage of smoke, destruction, and fear. And now, somehow, I was being linked to it. I didn’t have the words to explain how wrong that moment was. All I knew was that things were changing, and quickly. In the weeks and months after 9/11, I was no longer just a kid in high school. I was an Arab-American that constantly had to look over my shoulder. It didn't matter that I was 15 years old. It didn't matter that I was Christian. It didn't matter that I lived in rural New Hampshire with absolutely no connection to any terrorist organization. The bullying, name calling, and snickering at my expense continued longer than I care to explain. What I learned years later is this: when people don’t understand you, they create their own version of your story. And the best way to change that was to tell your own story before they tell it for you. For a long time, I stayed silent. I kept my head down. I knew that if I ignored the comments, they would simply go away. The following year, my English teacher announced a school-wide essay contest inviting students to share their reflections on 9/11 and what freedom meant to us. At first, I wasn’t sure if I wanted to participate. After all, I was not in a positive state of mind about this topic so I saw no reason to subject myself to this exercise. But, of course, the same day they announced this essay contest, the kid that was making my life miserable for a year decided to take another stab at me. I wrote the whole thing that night. I wrote about my family’s journey to America. About what it meant to leave behind a war-torn country. About how proud we were to become citizens. And about how, after 9/11, that sense of belonging was gone for me and most Arab-Americans in this country. When I was selected to read my essay in front of the entire school, I was terrified. The same students who had been bullying me, who had laughed, who had made me feel like an outsider — they would all be in that room. What felt like the next day, I stepped onto that stage as the last finalist to read their essay. I closed my eyes, and with slight anger in my voice I belted out the first words, "I was born during a war." Over the next 4 minutes I spoke about freedom from my lens, but what it could truly look like. I spoke about the façade of unity in this country. I spoke about pride and perseverance; how escaping war from my birth country only led to war in this country. When I finished, there was silence. I could practically hear the jaws hitting the floor. I was unsure if what I had just done was going to help me or hurt me, but the principal encouraged everyone to applaud and I walked off stage. As we exited the assembly, something unexpected happened. The one kid who led the charge at making my life miserable for the past year stopped me in the hallway. He looked at me, but didn't say anything this time. As he stuck out his hand, his blank face turned to remorse. He didn’t say a word. But he didn’t have to. That moment told me everything. He saw me. That moment taught me a lesson I will never forget: stories have the power to shift perspectives in ways that arguments never will. People fear what they don’t understand. When we don’t know someone’s story, we fill in the blanks with assumptions. The best way to break down bias is to make yourself known. Stories create connection. Facts inform. But stories connect. When someone hears your lived experience, they don’t just process information — they feel it. When you share your truth, you take back control. For a short amount of time, I let others define my identity. But telling my story helped me reclaim it. So, if you feel misunderstood — don’t allow yourself to shrink. Share your story. Let people see you. Because when they do, their perspective might change forever. We all have a story that could change someone’s perspective. My story brought me to the TEDx stage. Ask yourself, what’s one part of your story that others could benefit from hearing? Kibar Moussoba is the senior program manager of People Experience at Southern New Hampshire University, where he leads strategic Inclusive Listening initiatives to enhance employee engagement and equity, diversity, and inclusion. With a deep passion for fostering meaningful workplace experiences, he helps drive key initiatives aligned with the university’s strategic goals. Beyond his role at SNHU, Kibar is an award-winning entertainer and professional DJ, known for creating unforgettable experiences at events across New England and beyond. His love for music began at the age of five with piano lessons, and by 19, he had launched his professional DJ career with Main Event Entertainment. Originally from Beirut, Lebanon, but having spent most of his life in Southern New Hampshire, he developed his DJing skills early and quickly became a sought-after performer. His ability to blend diverse musical influences and craft dynamic atmospheres has made him one of New England’s top DJs. In addition to his professional commitments, Kibar serves on the Board of Directors for the Mental Health Center of Greater Manchester and has been recognized with several accolades, including the prestigious 40 Under Forty award in New Hampshire. He is also a TEDx speaker, sharing insights on resilience, perspective, and personal growth. A husband and father of two, Kibar balances his career with his dedication to family, mentorship, and making a meaningful impact in every space he enters. Please note: Each week, we invite members of the greater Global Citizens Circle community to contribute to GCC Voices. The views and opinions expressed in each blog post are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Global Citizens Circle. When we don’t know someone’s story, we fill in the blanks with assumptions. The best way to break down bias is to make yourself known. Stories create connection. Facts inform. But stories connect. When someone hears your lived experience, they don’t just process information — they feel it. When you share your truth, you take back control.  By Michael Lockett This past summer, I shared a bit about me and how I first got involved with Global Citizens Circle. I invite you to check out "The Not-So-Accidental Activist" if you haven't had the chance. If, like many of us, you're feeling a bit stuck these days, perhaps this video I created will spur you into action. You may start small, but you can still do big things. While International Women's Day was recognized on March 8, Global Citizens Circle has partnered with Southern New Hampshire University for a breakfast program on March 11, 2025, from 9-10:30 EST. You're welcome to attend in person (at the university's upper dining hall) or virtually. The details are available here. We hope you'll join us at this special Circle event: "From Crisis to Change: Addressing Gender-based Violence in Conflict Zones," featuring Theresa de Langis and Rashida Eltag Mohamed. Michael Lockett is a New York screenwriter, director, and sometimes producer, as well a member of Global Citizens Circle’s Board. A lifelong storyteller, Michael graduated from the University of Delaware with a degree in visual communications. After a stint in advertising, periodical design, and marketing/PR, he delved back into the longer storytelling forms with film and TV screenwriting. Although specializing in horror with dark, thought-provoking overtones, Michael is always prepared and happy to lend a hand or idea to make his or others' projects a success. Please note: Each week, we invite members of the greater Global Citizens Circle community to contribute to GCC Voices. The views and opinions expressed in each blog post are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Global Citizens Circle. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” ― Margaret Mead  By Marguerite Mariama, Ph.D. Dr. Mariama was a featured speaker for our recent Circle, “Uniting in the Face of Fear: Building Transformational Alliances.” If you weren’t able to attend, the video is now available. The lived experiences of some elders like me know that LOVE is the answer. I know many of you are tired of the darkness that is engulfing our world, from endless international wars to political battles here in the United States. Most of us are fed up with the toxicity spewing from so many. We find ways to escape, but denial and retreat do not solve the problem. We do not have to live like this! We do not have to be consumed by darkness. With the love light residing within us all, we can lean into the darkness with beacons to expose its hollow foundation built on lies, obfuscation, projection, denial, bullying, and gaslighting. These are the hallmarks of fear. The antidote to darkness is light and love. A few months ago, I watched the series, “My Generation” with bright-eyed enthusiasm and great expectations. I loved revisiting my teen and early adult years of art and activism, spiritual and historical awakenings, and the richness of multi-cultural and multiracial coalitions. We were evolving and leaning into an understanding of our interconnectedness in this human experience. We were learning unconditional love. During the 60’s and 70’s, civil rights advocates, Black power activists, environmentalists, artists, hippies, and flower children enjoyed an informal bond. Borne from a desire to live free from war, and the autonomy to be our trueselves, as well as loving whom we wanted, we sought to create an inclusive world that celebrated our shared humanity. Characteristics such as truth, justice, empathy, peace, beauty, love, and joy, helped shape our behaviors towards one another.  Our songs and mantras spoke volumes: We shall overcome, Black Power, Praise the Red, the Black and the Green, peace and love, and make love not war rang out as soul-filled expressions resonating with joy and the promise of a bright future. Young and somewhat naïve, we believed we could bend our country towards an embrace of its full democratic potential. The series “My Generation” ended with a message suggesting that we Baby Boomers had all abandoned the exquisite principles that shaped us and the world we were crafting. According to the producers, we sold out, bought in, or surrendered to a status quo that was rife with consumerism and greed. Of course, not all of us fit that description or played that game. Yes, that happened to have been the case for many, but some of us resisted the devouring of our Divine energy. As an artist, I saw the potential to opt on to the band wagon as soul stealing. Truth, purpose, beauty, and a love of people, using my art as a primary vehicle, fueled my passion. I kept going – bobbing, and weaving into several roles, and degrees, all the while the encroachment of oppressive forces were just around the next corner, ready to offer riches and comfort in exchange for my soul. I resisted then and continue to do so today. There are many others who also stayed the course and are still around actively working, and or mentoring younger generations. Our stories were omitted in the series, but “we know what time it is.” This is a term coined by activists during the 1960’s to mean the importance, ramifications, and consequences of what is happening at the moment. It also implies an understanding of what we must do to survive and thrive. The African adage, “The young can run fast but the elders know the way” reflects this way of knowing. Those of us who made it through American apartheid – Jim Crow, segregation, learned lessons that will help guide us through what is now shaping into a 2025 version of this atrocious period in history. That knowing underscores the importance of love, the bedrock for our survival and ability to thrive.  For some, the idea of love is vague. But that is not true for those of us who have lived through apartheid or fascism – especially Black women, who have remained rooted in love. Some have said, God is love, the source of the ultimate power, the highest vibration. I agree. Love is a verb that suggests an active participation in exhibiting a host of characteristics including kindness, joy, abundance, prosperity, balance, order, truth, justice, beauty, creativity, expansiveness, compassion, discipline, dominion, sensitivity, positive intellect, spiritual power and more. On the other hand, there is love’s opposite: Fear. Fear induces the false notion of scarcity, and anxiety, toxic competition, hate, envy, jealousy, violence, bigotry, racism, sexism, inhibitions, and phobias of all sorts. As unique expressions of the Divine source, there ought to be no room for any of the elements associated with fear. Love is light. Fear is darkness. Love expands, fear contracts. Humanity will either expand into the promises of love and light or devolve into fear and darkness. When humans awaken into adulthood, into maturity, we recognize the fallacy of a human hierarchy that defines or limits our value based upon our race, gender, ethnicity, culture, and class. The biases that crippled our hearts and closed our minds are replaced with a recognition and acceptance of a shared humanity centered in Divine love. At this moment of human reckoning, and as our planet cleanses itself of the humans who never learned to appreciate her hospitality, it is imperative that we choose love and light. Our survival depends on this reawakening. It is now time to transcend to the next level of our development in this human incarnation. Forward motion is necessary, essential – buoyed by joy. Holding on to that joy in the face of this challenging moment in history is vital to the achievement of human solidarity. As a reminder the Holy Bible beautifully states: “For we walk by FAITH not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7). An embrace of love despite what we see, with its warmth and coziness can be a segue to our freedom. Constant and consistently advancing, evolving, deepening, and elevating, we embrace life as a journey to enjoy the fruits of the existing physical reality. Those of us who consciously live in a state of openness and awareness to the voicings of spirit and have lived through ‘tryin’ times’ are here to tell the stories. There is a psychological muscularity that we have gained because of the lessons we’ve learned. As instruments of Divine essence, many of us are closer to the ancestral realm than we are to our youth and have lessons to reveal to all who will listen. We are spirits in human form with a mission to share our gifts in service to the new emerging paradigm. The old one with historical and political toxins would suggest otherwise. To do this, we need to understand that the power and freedom we seek is within. Nothing and no one outside of ourselves can take this power without our permission. Nope. It is not about other people who seem to be in power via outward manifestations including money and pseudo power. Pseudo power is energy that is limited to what we see manifested including outward displays such as money, roles played, land, and material possessions. But where is the intrinsic value? The answer: There is none, which is why in an effort to fill the void, those with the resources must constantly replenish the supply. That hungry obsession will continue to prevail, unless and until there is an embrace of the true keys to living in abundance, prosperity, and the like. Altering our mindsets to embrace guidance from within and to live from the spirit of light and love is the answer that will fill the internal longing for more. It is an internal game not an external one. Fulfilling the intrinsic via purpose and meaning fuels our lives. And, that does not preclude having and owning possessions. It simply means we become balanced. We seek inner fulfillment which attracts the resources that showcase the Divinity that resides within us all. The spiritual guidance that will provide that balance relies on an open mind, a mind that comprehends a consciousness beyond what we see, hear, touch, and feel (with our physical bodies). Our ways of knowing ought to be connected to a higher understanding of this truth of our being. In this human incarnation, we are at a moment of convergence and can be the architects of a beautiful version of our experience as spirit beings. Nefarious forces seek to stymie or stagnate this moment or take us backwards. Spiritualist Michael Bernard Beckwith describes who we are in this human incarnation as “growth-centric beings.” As such, we must transcend the old paradigm that seeks to impede the progress that is about to be made. As former Vice President Kamala Harris said during her campaign for the highest office in the land, “We are not going back.” No matter how well-funded and ferocious the backlash, when we stand in solidarity with conscious sisters and brothers, we have the power to evolve into our next version. The light within coupled with that of others becomes a beacon to transform ourselves and our world. In our transparent world, we can find truths in many places. The trick is to know where to look. This takes a deep and abiding connection to spiritual discernment, or connections to those whose voices are tried and true with lessons learned and shared. In other words, you have to know both where to look and who to trust. The inner voice will guide us towards thriving beyond our toxic thinking. These lyrics from the song, “Wake Up Everybody” by Harold Melvin and the Bluenotes are apt: “Wake up everybody no more sleepin’ in bed. No more backward thinking, time for thinking ahead.” Ahhh, and that’s where we find the good news. There is tremendous joy in escaping the matrix of mental programming. Deconstructing the toxicity of this indoctrination is liberating beyond belief. The world of abundance opens within to greet the willing receiver. And, the accompanying relief, release, and abandonment of the biggest obstacle, fear, is lovingly replaced with love and its many iterations. It does require and open heart, and vulnerability is essential. Clearly, trust is integral to this unfolding. So, the action plan is to find trusted folks. As an elder, I would suggest that we take a page from other cultures, and from what we African Americans of a certain age remember, where ways of knowing are passed on from generation to generation. Elders, those who have done the consciousness-building self-work and are attuned to both the Spiritual Realm and the Ancestral Realm can be trusted to support engagement with the deeper recesses of our current reality. These trusted resources are all around waiting to exchange knowledge with other generations whose ways of knowing might be different, but valuable none-the-less. Despite what is happening at the highest levels of government in the United States and abroad, now is a time to be bold, receptive, and fearless! Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers and others who “know the way” are eager to provide guidance, counsel, and last but not least, love. It is still the answer!  “Keep your love light on.” Lui Satterfield (Earth, Wind, and Fire) Black cultural pride and nationalism during the ‘60’s and ‘70’s gave rise to artists who used their craft to affirm Black culture as a tool for Black ‘upliftment.' These “cultural workers” launched the Black Arts Movement – where social justice, history, the arts and education intersected. One such artist – activist, performing artist, educator, Dr. Marguerite Mariama, has never wavered in her commitment to the arts as a tool for social, cultural and historical consciousness and liberation. A trained professional in music, dance and theatre arts, this former college professor also has clinical experience as a dance/movement therapist. Her early civil rights activism began as a teen in Chicago and included protest marches and rallies, including one led by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Dr. Mariama was “raised up” as an artist by great teachers including Katherine Dunham (dance). “Sitting at Ms. Dunham’s feet and hearing her stories was awesome; she reminded us of our social responsibility as young artists, and we answered the call in our performances.” She is currently a member of the Chicago Bulls Basketball Team’s Swingin’ Seniors Dancers. As a national and international big band and small ensemble jazzy blues stylist, she has traveled the world as a resident music artist and performed with some to the “greatest musicians” on the planet. She has enjoyed acting roles in theatre, films, commercials and print – and is also a voice actor. As a professor in New York City’s CUNY System, she created the arts integration theory and methodology, Performance Pedagogy® for personal and collective development and transformation. An SIU CoLa Distinguished Alum, and former Illinois Humanities Council Road Scholar, Dr. Mariama produces, presents and performs worldwide. She holds a Ph.D. in Performance Education/specializing in African American Musical Culture. She is represented by Stewart Talent Group and the theatrical union, SAG/AFTRA. Her upcoming book, "Artivism: A Sixties Artist/Activist’s Memoir and Guide for Embracing Our Shared Humanity and Transforming Our World" will be released this summer. Please note: Each week, we invite members of the greater Global Citizens Circle community to contribute to GCC Voices. The views and opinions expressed in each blog post are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Global Citizens Circle. The antidote to darkness is light and love. |
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